Wedding? Marriage?

Every little girl hopes to be a princess, every girl would dream to find her prince get married and live happily ever after. Fairy tales always give an idea of happy ending but what about reality? Does every story have their happy ending? How do you define happy ending? When does it start and when does it end? As a little girl and even up to last year, I have always dreamt of having a big ballroom wedding, with close family and close friends.. A night to remember for this lifetime.. But at the beginning of the year, I realised that I might not be getting what I have always dream of.. Winter themed ballroom, snowflakes hanging, tall wedding cake, dance floor, white dress.. Smile on every face.. warmth and joy from people you loved the most in this life.. Will it all be just a dream? But when I think of marriage.. What is marriage? Is it really about spending hundred of thousands of money for a night to remember? How long will you remember it for? Will everyone at the party remember it? or will it be just another wedding to attend to.. another amount of money to spend.. another normal marriage.. Wedding is just an occasion,, a celebration, a party.. Marriage is about love, about trust, about happiness, about who we want to spend the rest of our lives with.. Marriage is more than just an occasion.. It consists of all occasions, all celebrations and all parties.. I know I may regret this one day.. But I would just remind myself, there might be more happiness in my life than just that one night.. Everyday and every night of my marriage life should be memorable and should be amazing.. My marriage should be about experience and not money.. Having a million dollar wedding doesn't guarantee happiness a lifetime.. Getting married does not provide you security.. All I want is simple.. I just want to grow old with a man i loved and loves me back with all the love in the world.. Make all kind of memories of this lifetime.. Keep it, remember it and forever cherish it.. P.S: If you have all the resources, get a big wedding.. and make everyone happy..