Small Mistake Huge Mistake..

Everyone makes mistake! No one is perfect.. The magnitude of mistake people make varies and nobody could really say whether it is a small mistake or a huge mistake. However, who ever made the mistake will be blamed and will always be the faulty person. But have anyone ever thought maybe both party were at fault or maybe the other party was the reason the mistake happen… Let us give it some thought. Being in a LDR and not getting as much affection or attention from your loved ones maybe a dangerous sign for a relationship. You may think that nothing would happen or your partner may not be doing anything. However, there are many things that goes beyond your mind. People adapts to situation and environment real quick. Everything could happen in a blink of an eye. There is no wrong in always letting your partner know how you are feeling and even if you have to cry your eyes out, it is always better than if you keep everything inside you and let it eat you up.. Soon enough, you'll have doubt about your feelings for your partner. It will not be effective anymore even though you keep on convincing that you still love him and you only wanted him. Especially when there is another person who is right in front of you, making you feel comfortable and showing you his way of affection. Don't let that other person knock on your heart coz, your heart will answer.. Be strong and fight back. Sit down, reflects on the times you spent with your partner,, the first time you met, the first time he holds your hand, the first kiss, the first butterfly in your tummy.. Think of all the good and the bad.. Let your heart take you back to the wonderful time you guys had and all those memories that remains as time pass.. Think and think and think.. Are you really ready to let everything go and start something new and unfamiliar OR would you stay with your partner.. Love will tell you the answer.. Let your mind go free and let your heart feel whatever it wants to.. Let the tears flow and let the butterfly tickles.. Let your voice out and SCREAM… Its not easy and will never be easy.. It doesn't have painkillers that you could take.. You would just need to experienced it.. It's a part of life.. If you are the one being hurt, think.. is this relationship more important or your partner's mistake? What if you were the one who did the mistake? What do you want him/her to do?? Is he/she worth the forgiveness?? It does take a lot of thinking.. take time and think.. :)